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Isn't it time you stopped the exhausting cycle of questioning if you should be here?

If your secret is that you've spent years if not most of your adult life dealing with destructive or suicidal thinking, but the advice out there didn't really change much for you? And you've resigned yourself to just struggling along?
We need to talk.

The truth that the mental health industry misses? 

You aren't flawed, or sick, or suicidal. 

Your thoughts are.

You aren't 'depressed again',

you have a thinking disorder. 

More thinking and talking will change...

very little. 
A new approach beyond thinking

is needed. 

The Will to Live System is different than other advice or tools out there. It's something I organically created to help myself, combining psychology, neuroscience, & metaphysics. And I'm hoping you'll be part of helping this system evolve and grow even further, so it can help many others go from 'survive' to fully alive. 

And this system is not therapy.

You will get results without having to:

  • analyse and endlessly go over your past 

  • blame your parents or anyone else

  • push yourself to feel big uncomfortable emotions. ​​​

You and your amazing abilities inspired me to look deeper at myself and what I really wanted. You are such a gift to the world, thank you Andrea." 

- Hugh Osborne, hypnotherapist and coach

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THE WILL TO LIVE SYSTEM 

Over the course of eigh weeks you will move through the 7 stages of the Will to Live System.

REFRAME 
breaking identification with your destructive thinking
neutralising your unhelpful beliefs about yourself
accessing your 'Greater Mind' 

RECONNECT
learning the truth about connection
(it's easier than you think)
connecting with ease to yourself and others 
(even if you are introverted and hate connection)

RESTRUCTURE
understanding your thinking mind
putting your 'monkey mind' in the back seat 
growing your Greater Mind
integrating your mind, body, and unconscious 

RECALIBRATE
develop a perspective that serves you over stops you
move into living from creativity over 'destructivity'
escape the stress of constant wrong decisions

RELEASE
release the beliefs, people, and situations that hold you back 
(without having to discuss or analyse)
let go of anxiety
stop living from obligation

RESET
override your past without having to revisit it
reset your life story into one that serves you 
communicate with your brain in its favourite 'language'

RECLAIM
reclaim and integrate the various parts that make up 'You'
take back your energy
call in power and purpose 

**Sign Up By Jan 1 For the Bonus Stage**
 
RECREATE
my special bonus tools to help you shift quickly
into being the you that wants to live
(the person you were, deep down, all along)
and create a solid bridge to the reality where you thrive.  
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HOW DOES IT WORK? 

  • Five daily lessons/challenges a week 

  • One summary/integration day a week 

  • Access to a library of unique tools to help you (how-to videos, checklists, meditations) 

  • One year access to the course and tools library included, including all updates (two years with advanced plan)

  • optional online support group with weekly live Q&A.

A Bit About Me...

How do I know what it's like to live with suicidal thinking? Because I have myself, since the second I realised as a child that you could choose to die. Even before that I was looking for an escape, sneaking into the back of any closet I found, hoping to find the way to Narnia. Let's just say my childhood was unstable, unsupportive, and unsafe. 

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 I can't even remember a time in my life I wasn't what I call 'half in, half out'. If you are anything like me, the idea that you could at some point exit stage left wasn't terrifying, it was your only comfort.

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By early adulthood I thought about my death all the time. I didn't commit suicide as by then my mother had dragged us into an extremist evangelical church, where I was told in no uncertain terms if i took my life I'd go to Hell. So I chose the torture I already knew, and resorted instead to destructive behaviours. 

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When I got away from the Church,  the self-destruction reached the point it almost happened. I 'died' from drugs and had an 'out of body experience'.... but came back. What I experienced 'on the other side' amazed me, and for a few years, I wanted to live. I became obsessed with exploring the nature of reality and also self-development, wanting to understand what I experienced.  But it didn't last. The destructive thinking and dark spells came back... >>

This Course is For You If...

  • The advice out there about self-destructive thinking feels patronising, oversimplified, and annoying as hell to you

  • The more people try to ‘help’ you, the worse it makes you feel

  • You are sick of the shame cycle, of endless highs and lows, and feeling flawed

  • You don’t want to be treated as ‘sick’, you want solutions for the long-term 

  • And most of all you are exhausted, and sick of feeling so exhausted

  • You can’t see a way forward, but you want one

  • You are willing to gather up your courage, step outside your comfort zone, and give things another good go, even if it feels uncomfortable or strange at first. 

  • You are prepared to sign a contract agreeing to not harm yourself in any way during the process and to stay on this planet for the next six months. I am only willing to invest in those willing to give themselves a proper chance.  

PLEASE NOTE
This Course is NOT For You If...

1) You are currently incredibly fragile and unstable.

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This is an experience for those who have destructive thinking and suicidal thoughts but are stable enough to go through a transformative process and do deep work on themselves.

2) You need one-on-one support. 

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This course is NOT a one-on-one support system or emergency support system. If you are consistently a danger to your own health at this time then it's best to find one-on-one support and a safe environment for yourself. And this course can be something to come back to when you are steady again. 

3) You are looking for a group moan and vindication for all you went through.


 Validation through misery has its time and place with personal growth, and is the right moment to work with a therapist or coach. This system, however, is for those who are ready to step into power and let go of helplessness and self-victimisation. 

I strongly recommend to anyone wanting answers, clarity and guidance to reach out to Andrea as she is a truly beautiful soul with absolutely wonderful gifts to share.

 

- Matt Taylor, the Karmic Alchemist for Modern Times

Am I Promising to Change or Even Save Your Life?

There is only one person who can change your life
and save your life.
And that's the person staring back at you in the mirror each day.
What this course is designed to do
is to help you understand and activate the power and creativity that person ALREADY has.
And the incredible, powerful, driving will to live
that person already has. 
Then give you the tools to maintain that drive
and create a life you are committed to being in
no matter what your thoughts might try to tell you. 

If You Put in the Work You Can Achieve Results Like:

  • No longer being controlled or driven by destructive thinking. With time it will lose any power over you and feel like a cheeky child you monitor, or background static.

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  • Feeling powerful, aware of who you truly are, and in charge of yourself and your life.

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  • Having a new voice in your head that is like a supportive parent, encouraging you at every turn.

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  • Being able to catch yourself about to self-sabotage and making different choices instead. 

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  • Making decisions that move your forward instead of backwards.

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  • Peacefully shifting away from the people, places, and things that don't serve you and recognising and aligning with those that do. 

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  • Experiencing a sense of connection to this world and those around you. Even if you don't 'like' someone or a situation or a committed introvert. 

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  • Finding a new sense of purpose that drives you forward. 

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  • And most of all, having a new sense of commitment to stick with this life and see what happens, come what may. 

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Program Starts Jan 15th 2026 
(**prices go up Jan 1st**) 

  • Will to Live System Self-Guided

    97US$
    Five lessons a week, one integration day a week. This package is self-guided, meaning although only five lessons open a week, you can do it at your own pace. Access to course materials for one year.
    Valid for one year
    • five lessons a week
    • one integration day a week
    • access to library of tools
    • one-year access to course and library

  • Will to Live System With Support Group

    297US$
    Go through the eight-week Will to Live System process with group support and one weekly live Q&A. TWO YEARS access included.
    Valid for 2 years
    • five lessons a week
    • one integration day weekly
    • access to library of tools
    • two-year access to course and library
    • support group for eight weeks with eight weekly live Q&As

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